Christian Family Sunday - May 10th, 2026

Family as defined by Inclusion Alberta: “A family is a group of people connected by blood, marriage, adoption, or a shared commitment to love and support one another. It often functions as a single household, providing structure, nurturing, and social order, though it can also be defined by voluntary, long-term bonds.”

Families take on many forms, shapes and sizes. Over time some people find ways to blend families of origin or adoption and chosen families into cohesive, loving communities. Sometimes it is necessary to leave one’s family of origin and find new family.

Families are complex and organic in their development and in their existence.  My family is no different in its complexity, its dynamics and in its functioning as other families. I am grateful to my parents for their love and support. I am also aware that as a child the many moves our family made, caused me to resent them. I am thankful that as an adult, we formed relationships rooted in love and respect. I am pleased that my brother and I have found a way to be present in each other’s lives that is healthy and good for both of us.

I am forever thankful for the gift of my son. While life was challenging, it was rich in love and adventure. His death still brings deep sadness. However, the echo of his laughter continues to sing in my heart. It was through Liam that my family grew and developed beyond my imagination. I have grandchildren because of him. I have a roommate who is a great companion and friend.

On my recent trip to the Netherlands, I was reminded that I am grounded in a family with deep roots and a long history of service, ministry and connection. That friends from long ago are members of my chosen family who welcomed me back into their lives with delight and hospitality.

And throughout it all, I have been privileged to be a part of the family of Christ through the church in its many configurations. The church family has nurtured my faith, challenged my assumptions, allowed me to ask questions and to explore what it means to be a disciple of Christ. I am blessed by the grace extended to me through mentors and parental figures, the companionship of siblings of the faith in accompanying me on the journey, and the ones of all ages who have welcomed me to minister with them as I share their experiences.

On this Christian Family Weekend, may you be surrounded by folks who love you, encourage you, and value you. May the God of grace and mercy embrace you in love and remind you that you are beloved.

Rev. Deborah

Above photo: Back row l2r Rev. Deborah, Bobbi (support person), Linbo (Chinese exchange student), R-W (Rev. D’s brother) 
Middle row l2r Curtis (Bobbi’s spouse), John/Opa (Rev. D’s father) Darrel (EA/roommate) 
Front row l2r Keiton (B’s & C’s son), Keiana (B’s & C’s daughter), Liam (Rev. D’s son)